10 Post-Dating Do’s and Don’ts for August
As the final stretch of summer approaches, it’s the perfect time to reflect on your season of dating and adjust your strategy to make the most of what’s left. Whether you're navigating the dating world with excitement or some hesitation, these tips will help you keep things light, fun, and memorable.
Do’s:
Fill Your Schedule with Social Activities: Accept invites to BBQs, outdoor events, and festivals. These low-pressure gatherings are ideal for meeting new people.
Embrace Techno-Romance: Beat the heat by chatting online with someone you’ve been interested in. It’s a casual way to build a connection.
Explore New Friendships: Spend time with intriguing new people, even if they aren’t long-term prospects. This keeps things fresh and fun.
Enjoy Casual Outdoor Meetings: Plan casual "work drinks" or meet-ups at relaxed outdoor spots. It’s a great way to mix business with pleasure.
Pursue Personal Interests: Engage in summer-specific activities like hiking or reading on a porch. This makes you feel fulfilled and interesting.
Be Social on Vacation: Talk to new people while traveling. You might meet someone who becomes a part of your social circle.
Post Selective Summer Photos: Share fun summer moments on social media to attract potential suitors while keeping your image positive.
Enjoy Summer Fridays: Use your early hours to relax at an outdoor café with friends or potential dates. It sets the tone for an exciting weekend.
Invite Your Prospect on Non-Dates: Take advantage of summer’s laid-back vibe to invite someone out casually, without the pressure of a formal date.
Have Fun and Flirt: Summer is about being carefree and confident. Embrace the relaxed atmosphere and enjoy some light-hearted flirting.
Don’ts:
Avoid Awkward Formal Dates: If a date feels forced or uncomfortable, it’s not worth it. Choose fun, social activities instead.
Don’t Over-Isolate: Watching TV alone is tempting, but engaging with others online or in person is more rewarding.
Don’t Rush into Seriousness: Enjoy new connections without immediately planning a future together.
Avoid Stuffy Venues: Summer is the time for laid-back spots, not formal or stuffy environments.
Don’t Follow Someone Else’s Interests: Stay true to what you love, rather than adopting someone else’s hobbies just to impress.
Don’t Dwell on the Past: While on vacation, live in the moment instead of worrying about past relationship issues.
Avoid Overposting: Sharing too many photos with various people can give the wrong impression.
Don’t Overwork: Use your free time to relax, not to catch up on work.
Don’t Drink and Confess: Keep things light; there’s no need to spill your heart out after a few drinks.
Don’t Abandon Your Standards: Enjoy the summer, but keep your personal boundaries and values intact.
Make the most of these last weeks of summer by keeping your dating life fun and pressure-free. Before you know it, autumn will arrive, bringing with it new opportunities for romance. Enjoy every moment of this sunny season!
