21 First Date Ideas in Seattle
POV: Your crush texts you asking if you’re free this weekend. You are. And no, you aren’t dreaming. You reply “yes” (in a chill way), and they respond by asking where you should go. You’ve suddenly forgotten every single place you’ve ever been to in Seattle.
Don’t worry, we’ve been there, and we’re here to help with first date ideas around Seattle.
Whether you’re looking for an art class near your rental home in Ballard, a cocktail bar close to your downtown apartment, or an intimate restaurant near your Seattle, WA home, we’ve got you covered. First dates can be nerve-racking, and while your date might not pass the vibe check, these spots sure will.
1. Drinks at Bathtub Gin & Co.
You can’t go wrong with drinks for a first date, which is why Krystal Walter, CEO of Krystal Walter Matchmaking, recommends Bathtub Gin & Co. in Belltown.
“This speakeasy-style cocktail bar offers a warm, candlelit atmosphere that’s perfect for conversation. Guests can enjoy carefully crafted cocktails or let the bartender surprise them with something unique, making it an unforgettable Seattle experience,” says Krystal.
2. Parfumerie Nasreen
Located in downtown Seattle in the lobby of the Royal Alexis Sonesta Hotel lives the perfect first date loop. If you’re both into reading, consider “grab[bing] a bite and a cocktail at the Bookstore Bar & Cafe or [if not], a coffee and pastry at Storyville Coffee,” suggests the neighboring shop Parfumerie Nasreen.
After your nibble, pop into their parfumerie to “get cozy sniffing new scents with your special someone [with their] exclusive niche fragrances from around the world.”
3. Wunderground Coffee
Speaking of coffee, “Wunderground Cafe in Capitol Hill offers a charming ambiance perfect for sparking conversation,” says Crystal Hadaway of Wunderground Coffee.
“Known for its delicious adaptogenic mushroom-infused coffees, this cafe combines wellness with flavor, creating an unforgettable coffee date experience. Its inviting atmosphere, complete with modern decor and mushroom-themed art, makes it an excellent choice for couples looking for something offbeat yet warm,” says Crystal.
4. Dark Room
If you’re looking for a date spot in Greenwood, look no further than Dark Room. This cocktail bar features “local photography from POC artists, a collection of vintage and antique cameras, and some serious mood lighting,” says Amy Beaumier of Dark Room.
“Unique spirits, N/A offerings, Korean-inspired snacks, and a fun vibe make this a great first date choice,” continues Amy.
5. Lunch at Tivoli
Right in downtown Fremont lives Tivoli, a restaurant serving up a mix of “nostalgia for a Midwestern upbringing and the rustic cuisine of the Italian diaspora,” says Cassie Woolhiser, communications and events captain of Tivoli.
With “warm hospitality, a casual atmosphere, a beautifully stocked bar, and [food made with] quality ingredients, Tivoli makes for a wonderful date spot for lunch or dinner,” says Cassie.
6. Respite Wine Bar
Located on Stone Way, Respite is a brand-new wine bar that is cozy, chic, and sure to make the perfect first date.
“The wine is delicious and interesting, giving you and your partner plenty to talk about. With half glasses, flights, and bottles to share, there are plenty of ways to enjoy wine and a friendly, knowledgeable staff to get the conversation started. Date going well? Bottles are available to take home to keep the party going,” says Respite Wine Bar.
7. Seattle Art Class with Pottery Northwest
Want to get creative with your date? “Try your hand at the pottery wheel, guided by friendly instructors, and create a one-of-a-kind piece at Pottery Northwest,” says their education and development coordinator, Emma Gering.
If you’re still looking for Valentine’s Day plans, consider their Clay Night. With no experience needed, simply “come ready to play with clay and leave with lasting memories,” says Emma.
8. Itto’s Vino
In the West Seattle neighborhood, look no further than Itto’s Vino for a cozy and intimate first date.
Here, you and your date can “unwind with a vibrant selection of Spanish wines and a relaxed, lounge-like atmosphere,” says CMS Certified Sommelier Maxwell McCaulou.
This spot is a truly “ideal place to sip, savor, and enjoy each other’s company,” says Maxwell.
9. Bar Bayonne
“Whether it’s a first meeting over an afternoon coffee or a romantic night of wine and cocktails, neon-lit Bar Bayonne is a cozy and casual all-day/night date spot,” says owner Zac Overman.
This spot is especially great for a meet-up due to its central location in Seattle’s First Hill neighborhood.
10. Cooking Class Date Idea – Pike to Plate
“Turn your date night into an unforgettable culinary adventure in a fully private cooking class with Pike to Plate,” suggests founder Jennifer O’Connor.
This experience not only uses seasonal ingredients sourced from the infamous Pike Place Market, but the menu is also tailored to you and your date’s food preferences and learning goals.
“From prepping fresh ingredients to adding the perfect finishing touches, you’ll create a meal that’s as much about connection as it is about flavor,” says Jennifer.
11-21 (More Great First Date Ideas)
Flight Wine and Chocolate – Capitol Hill getaway with curated wine and chocolate flights.
The Garrison – A locally owned oyster and seafood house with a champagne-focused menu.
Baila District – Salsa or bachata dance lessons for a fun and interactive date.
Three Sacks Full – Cozy wine bar with an ever-changing menu from local farmers.
Explore West Seattle – A scenic date with waterfront views, wildlife, and great dining options.
Yonder Cider – A casual date spot with fire pits, food trucks, and a variety of ciders and beers.
Toulouse Petit Kitchen & Lounge – Upscale dining in a warm, candlelit atmosphere.
Aroom Coffee – Vietnamese coffee shop designed for connection and relaxed conversation.
I Love Sushi on Lake Union – Traditional and modern sushi with stunning waterfront views.
Monster – Craft classes like rug tufting and hand embroidery for a creative date.
Sangamam – Cozy spot serving authentic South Indian cuisine in an intimate setting.
Good Luck & Have Fun
Whether you take your date to a cocktail bar in Belltown, a pottery class, or a fancy dinner, we hope you and yours have a great time. Try to relax, be yourself, and know that we’re rooting for you.
