Ask Krystal: Am I getting Ghosted

Ghosting—when someone you're talking to suddenly vanishes without a trace. It sucks, but it’s common in today’s dating world. Wondering if it’s happening to you? Here are some signs to watch out for:

Radio Silence: You went from chatting regularly to hearing crickets. Texts, calls, DMs—nothing’s getting a response.

One-Word Replies: If they do respond, it's with the enthusiasm of a sloth. "K," "Sure," "Yeah"—yawn.

Cancelation Central: Plans keep getting canceled or postponed. They’re suddenly busier than a celebrity at Fashion Week.

Social Media Activity: They’re posting on Instagram but can’t find time to reply to your text? Suspicious.

Avoiding the Future Talk: Whenever the topic of future plans comes up, they dodge it like it’s a question about their ex.

So, what should you do if you think you’re getting ghosted? Here’s the game plan:

Stay Cool: Don’t blow up their phone with angry texts. If they’re ghosting, this won’t help.

Give it Time: Wait a bit. People have lives, and maybe they’re just busy. A day or two of silence isn’t always a red flag.

Reach Out Once: Send a casual, low-pressure message. Something like, “Hey, haven’t heard from you in a bit. Hope everything’s okay.”

Accept It: If there’s still no response, it’s time to accept it. It sucks, but it’s better to know now than keep waiting.

Move On: Don't dwell. Get back out there, do things you love, and meet new people. Remember, ghosting says more about them than you.

Keep your chin up and your heart open. The right person won’t vanish—they’ll stick around and make the effort.