5 Amazing first date tips for men & women
First dates can be intimidating and nerve-wracking; we won't deny that! But luckily, we are here to help you navigate those first date jitters by giving you some easy tips you can apply to make that first date a little less stressful.
· Tip #1 Be Open: My biggest tip would be for women to be open and straight forward. Men don't like to admit it, but we aren't as secure and confident as we like to be, leading us to question if the woman is as interested in us as we are into her. If we don't think they like us, this can lead men to not giving the date or relationship as much attention that is needed.
· Tip #2 Think about dating like an adventure and not an interview: Try to be in the moment and focus on the two of you, not rehearsing all the questions your girlfriends use. Instead, put your arm around him and take him on an adventure or to a place you know well. The rest will take care of itself.
· Tip #3 Be engaged and ask questions: There is nothing wrong with talking about yourself, but it is a bit concerning when you can’t stop doing so for hours. Give time to the person sitting with you at that table
· Tip #4 Be yourself: Please let them know upfront if you’re timid. I know it’s tough for some people to open up on a first date and talk a lot, but if you’re very quiet, they will assume you don’t like them, or you’re not having fun.
· Tip #5 Take it easy on the booze: Although yes, some us of enjoy our alcohol, and it helps us to loosen up and feel more relaxed on a date, we recommend sticking to a two-drink maximum. This allows you to loosen up and feel a bit more relaxed, but yet being still fully aware of the conversation and being engaged throughout the date.